There are people among us who can easily go unseen — those experiencing homelessness, the homebound, the imprisoned, the poor, and others in need. As Catholics, we are called to see them, serve them, and recognize Christ in them.
Through The Friendly Place Lunches Ministry, parishioners put that call into action by preparing a simple, hearty meal each week for 60 to 75 people at The Friendly Place in Kailua-Kona. A warm meal provides nourishment, but it also offers something more — a reminder to those facing difficult circumstances that they are seen and cared for.
Janice Lacro, parish administrative assistant, believes wholeheartedly in the importance of this ministry.
“The Friendly Place Lunches Ministry is a simple, steady outreach of compassion,” she says. “The meal is meant to be an extension of our own table — something warm, filling, and offered with dignity.”
Each Monday, a volunteer coordinates the meal. Patty Kellar handles the first week of the month, while Sue Costa coordinates the second week from September through May and Cheryl Roderer from June through August. Parish office volunteers take the third week, Teresa Clark the fourth, and Debra Miles the fifth.
The meals don’t need to be elaborate. Volunteers may prepare a dish, provide ingredients, or make a financial donation. Those who wish may also help deliver or serve the meal, but neither is required. Even something as simple as cookies, rice, or chopped vegetables can become part of the weekly meal.
“Every contribution becomes part of a shared offering of care,” Janice says.
The ministry grew from a desire to offer tangible help to people in need.
“Preparing a meal felt like a natural expression of our faith and a way to quietly support those who are struggling,” Janice says.
And parishioners don’t need to be accomplished cooks to participate. What matters is a willingness to contribute and help provide a home-cooked meal.
“One memorable moment that stays with us forever is when a guest simply said, ‘Thank you for remembering us,’” Janice says. “It wasn’t about the menu — it was about being seen. That small exchange reminds us that even a simple meal can carry deep meaning for someone facing hardship.”
Providing lunch can also have an impact beyond meeting an immediate need. The meals bring people to The Friendly Place, where they can connect with resources.
“A meal provides immediate comfort,” Janice says. “It says, ‘You matter.’ It also encourages individuals to come to The Friendly Place, where they can access the resources that help them move toward housing and stability. The meal becomes a doorway to hope.”
Whether through cooking, helping with a meal, or making a financial contribution, there is a place for anyone who would like to support the ministry.
“You’ll be welcomed, guided, and supported,” Janice says. “And you may find that this simple act of service fills your heart in ways you didn’t expect. One Monday can become a blessing — for you and for those you serve.”
Contact the parish office at stmichaelarchangel@rcchawaii.org to learn how you might get involved.
